Patricia Javier spends birthday with lupus patients

Patricia Javier (left) and Lucy Torres-Gomez —PHOTOS BY ISRAEL VIDAL/HFL FOUNDATION

Patricia Javier (left) and Lucy Torres-Gomez —PHOTOS BY ISRAEL VIDAL/HFL FOUNDATION

Actress Patricia Javier celebrated her birthday last May 16, but instead of hosting a party for friends, she chose to spend it with patients afflicted with the auto-immune disease called lupus.

Patricia was with Ormoc Rep. Lucy Torres-Gomez and Diwa Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar, who is also the president of the Hope For Lupus (HFL) Foundation.

On that day, these kickass women led the opening of an exhibit on lupus awareness at the Glorietta mall in Makati City.

“It started when I got invited to join the surprise birthday party for Cong. Em last May 10, which also happens to be World Lupus Day,” Patricia told the Inquirer. Emmeline is also a lupus patient. “It’s the first time that I’ve heard of lupus … I realized that people should be made aware of the illness. That’s when I decided to spend my birthday by participating in a worthwhile cause such as this.”

Patricia, who’s also very much into wellness and beauty, said: “I want to share what I know with these lupus warriors in order to give them hope. It’s important to remind them that there are people out there who care for them, that God will not give challenges they cannot handle.”

Lucy, on the other hand, has been friends with Emmeline since 2010. “I didn’t even know then that she had the disease. When she asked me to open today’s event, I didn’t hesitate to say ‘yes.’ As I learned more about lupus, I realized that it’s not like a death sentence, that people can live normal lives if they get the proper treatment and care,” said the former TV host and dancer. “In a personal and professional capacity, I pledged support to Em, because looking at the symptoms now, lupus patients can be anyone, and we just don’t know they have it.”

To raise more funds, the HFL Foundation will release in June a book written by Emmeline, titled “Living Better With Lupus.” Proceeds from its sales will go to the treatment of indigent patients with lupus.

“Each chapter starts with my own experience,” said Emmeline. “All the manifestations are explained in a language that is understandable to lay people. We have other patients to talk about the manifestations that I have no experience with.

“It’s a self-help and reference book for patients and their families. All will be discussed in that book, including what to eat or whether or not using hair dye is allowed.”

“Fighting Lupus, Saving Lives: An Exhibit Tour for Lupus Awareness” will be at SM branches: Novaliches from May 29 to June 4; Sta. Mesa, July 3 to 9; Manila, July 31 to Aug. 6; East Ortigas, Sept. 4 to 10; Marikina, Sept. 18 to 24, and Angono, Oct. 2 to 8.

Article by Marinel Cruz.

Mark Villar gives wifey ‘queen treatment’ on b-day

Em Aglipay was totally floored by Mark Villar’s efforts to surprise her on her birthday.

The DIWA party-list representative was over the moon with how her hubby cheered her up after experiencing disappointment with distribution problems with her “Living Better with Lupus” book. In just two days, the DPWH secretary was able to organize a gathering for her birthday which also coincides with World Lupus Day.

“Nung nakita ko siya na malungkot na malungkot, pati ako nalungkot. Kaya immediately after nagorganize. Kaya pasensya na if last minute itong event na ito. Kaya I’m so thankful all our friends are here to make the event very memorable for my wife whom I love very much. I hope you enjoy this event. I know it means a lot to you. I really tried hard,” Mark said in his speech.

Em gushed her thanks on Instagram saying, “He always makes a way to make life happier, easier, and more beautiful for me every day, whether it is by making a way to ease my schedule and stress so that I can rest or by surprising me with little pasalubongs like my favourite food or a book that I want. I love you Sweetheart! You always make me feel like a queen. God could not have blessed me with a better husband than you.”

Sniff. Pass the tissues please. We wholeheartedly declare, Sec. Mark and Rep. Em as the King and Queen of Hearts. #

 

Mark Villar gives wifey ‘queen treatment’ on b-day

Patricia Javier celebrates birthday with lupus patients

Updated as of 5/23/2017 10:08 AM
by: Joan Leary

For her birthday this year, actress Patricia Javier didn’t have a grand celebration. Instead, she visited lupus patients with Ormoc representative Lucy Torres-Gomez and Diwa Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar who is a lupus patient and the president of the Hope For Lupus (HFL) Foundation.

“It started when I got invited to join the surprise birthday party for Cong. Em last May 10, which also happens to be World Lupus Day,” Patricia told the Philippine Daily Inquirer.

“It’s the first time that I’ve heard of lupus … I realized that people should be made aware of the illness. That’s when I decided to spend my birthday by participating in a worthwhile cause such as this,” she added.

Lucy, who is also a friend of Emmeline, said she didn’t hesitate to open the exhibit on lupus awareness at the Glorietta mall in Makati.

“As I learned more about lupus, I realized that it’s not like a death sentence, that people can live normal lives if they get the proper treatment and care,” she said.

“In a personal and professional capacity, I pledged support to Em, because looking at the symptoms and now, lupus patients can be anyone, and we just don’t know they have it,” she added.

Young moms of the new millennium

By Joyce Reyes-Aguila

 

For all the grief and bad press that so-called Millennials (or people born anywhere from the ’80s to early 2000s) get, Millennial women are more likely to “interrupt their career for family,” according to a Harvard Business School alumni survey shared by New York Times columnist Claire Cain Miller in “More Than Their Mothers, Young Women Plan Career Pauses. ” In it, she wrote that “37 percent of Millennial women and 42 percent of those already married planned to interrupt their career for family…compared with 28 percent of Generation X women and 17 percent of baby boomers.”

These days, young mothers who have demanding careers will not think twice about scaling back work for the sake of their families. Millennial moms are finding ways to integrate their home life with their professional life, as Panorama learns from three busy mothers who have careers in the fields of public service, entertainment, and television/movie production.

So, how do Millennial moms get through the expectations and demands of all their roles?

Rep. Em Aglipay-Villar and daughter Emma Therese

Rep. Em Aglipay-Villar and daughter Emma Therese

Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar

DIWA Party List Representative

A demanding legislative role used to take precedence for Democratic Independent Workers’ Association (DIWA) Party-list representative Emmeline “Em” Aglipay-Villar.  She would attend every single affair she was invited to, travel around the country to visit projects, conduct activities for her organization, and speak with its members even during weekends. “I am a workaholic, and work has been a priority in my life,” she admits. “But I always knew that once I have a family of my own, it would have to be the priority.”

So when she and her husband, Department of Public Works and Highways (DPWH) Secretary Mark Villar, welcomed daughter Emma Therese in September 2015, the youngster became the center of their lives. “Mark and I are hands-on parents,” the lawyer and member of the University of the Philippines Order of the Purple Feather Honors Society shared. “I am a co-sleeping, breast-feeding, cloth-diapering kind of mom. I try to personally prepare Emma’s food (and) educational activities for her at home, bring her to play school, read her books…” Free time during the day is also spent with their child.

Rep. Em Aglipay-Villar, a lupus sufferer and advocate, and Public Works and Highways Secretary Mark Villar with their firstborn and pride and joy, Emma Therese

Rep. Em Aglipay-Villar, a lupus sufferer and advocate, and Public Works and Highways Secretary Mark Villar with their firstborn and pride and joy, Emma Therese

The first-time parents are learning to integrate family time with their work that, at times, requires attention even on weekends. Often, Emma joins her parents on work trips and enjoys the sights via an extra day. When the congresswoman is scheduled to visit DIWA bailiwick province Bohol, for example, the cabinet secretary would schedule infrastructure inspections in the area to get some work done at the same time.

“Emma and I have not slept apart since she was born,” the 10 Outstanding Young Men (TOYM) of 2012 for Public Service awardee said. “If I have to stay overnight somewhere, I would bring her with me (and) find a suitable place for her to stay.”

After each session day at the Lower House, Em gets home when their baby is about to sleep or is already asleep. “If she is awake, we shower together and do our nightly rituals like reading books and praying,” she says. “Mark also usually arrives when Emma is asleep already. In the middle of the night, he helps me change diapers.” To make up for his busy schedule, the secretary makes sure he spends the weekend with his family. And if work entails him to be away, Emma sees a lot of her dad through numerous video calls a day.

“These are just minor adjustments,” the legislator said. At present, she juggles her time with her congressional duties for DIWA and Las Piñas—Mark’s elective district where she is the designated caretaker, and her responsibilities when she was the chair of the Committee on Women and Gender Equality. Em is also currently busy with her Masters in Law studies, and advocacies such as the Hope for Lupus Foundation. Being a mom, she said, has not allowed her to work out daily or go to the salon regularly to get a manicure-pedicure. “Now, I am only able to cut my hair when people already bug me to cut it.”

Last Christmas at the Villar home

Last Christmas at the Villar home

“I do not feel bad about this. I choose to do all these things. I just face the challenges with a lot of positive vibes—always facing each day with a strong spirit and passion for my work, all the love in the world for my family, and a grateful heart. I’m just brimming with excitement for all these. Having love for what you do is the best way to get through the challenges, since you are able to bear the hardships that go with achieving your goals, whether personal or professional,” she added.

Recently, stress took its toll on Em, and she experienced a lupus flare. She had first manifested the symptoms of the autoimmune disease in 2007. She has had to cut down on her work, adding that she wants “to live long and be healthy for Emma and for Mark.” Her Hope for Lupus Foundation was founded to help patients who cannot afford treatment, and effectively diagnose those suspected to have the malaise. The congresswoman initially had second thoughts about establishing the foundation, scared that her illness would make people judge her unfit to be a public servant. But when she experienced complications in 2015 that almost made her lose her battle to the illness, Em decided to “lose no time in doing what (she had) always wanted to do.” She established the foundation, is writing a book, applied into her dream school, and continues to do everything possible to be a good wife and mom. For her, family always comes first. Villar believes in setting priorities in order, and training people so one can delegate tasks at work instead of “delegating your task as a mother to someone else.”

“Though I have always dreamed of becoming a mother, I only understood what it truly meant when I became one,” says Em. “I am still able to reach my general career goals while at the same time being physically present for Emma. I want to be the best mother that I can be and, if I should be forced to choose between my career and my child/children, I would always choose the latter. Nothing could be more important than them.”

The healing power of love

Since he will be on official trip to China this weekend, Public Works Sec. Mark Villar surprised his wife, DIWA Party List Rep. Emmeline “Em” Aglipay-Villar with a Mother’s Day big lunch at Annabel’s restaurant last Wednesday graced by media guys and what the couple called The Lupus Warriors composed of lupus patients like Em. “We will celebrate Mother’s Day as soon as I come back,” said Mark. “It will be a big family day.” According to a medical book, lupus is an autoimmune disease that causes swelling (inflammation) and a wide variety of symptoms. It affects each individually uniquely. Some people have only a few mild symptoms and others have many, more severe symptoms, among them: Fatigue, recurrent low-grade fever, rashes, itchy lesions in some areas of the body, discoloration in the fingers and toes, chest pains and shortness of breath, swollen painful joints, gastro intestinal problems, etc. “I have all those,” Em again reminded those present. “Lupus can be hard to diagnose because it hides behind various symptoms. Once you have it, you have it for life. All you can do is take medications to manage it.” As Funfare previously reported, Em was single when she was in her early 20s when diagnosed with lupus. She underwent chemotherapy. “Luckily,” said Em, “I didn’t have to undergo dialysis.” Entertainment ( Article MRec ), pagematch: 1, sectionmatch: 1 To hide the rashes on her face, she had to wear thick makeup. She said that she even hesitated to get married…

 

read more: https://www.aseanbreakingnews.com/2017/05/the-healing-power-of-love/

A RELEVANT SURPRISE BIRTHDAY PARTY FOR REP. VILLAR

REP. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar of Diwa Party List is a lupus survivor and she turned 35 last May 10, which was by coincidence also World Lupus Day. “Talagang malaki ang koneksyon sa’kin ng lupus,” she laughs.

She says she planned to launch her book, “Living Better with Lupus”,  in time for her birthday. “But hindi natuloy kasi nagkaproblema sa distribution, so sa June na lang. I’m also supposed to launch a project providing umbrellas kasi kalaban naming mga may lupus ang sikat ng araw dahil we’re photosensitive, hindi rin natuloy. So nabanggit ko sa husband ko, DPWH Sec. Mark Villar (the son of Sens. Manny and Cynthia Villar), that I’m so sad na walang mangyayaring kaganapan sa birthday ko. I didn’t know, he prepared pala this surprise birthday party for me.”

The secret bash was held at Annabel’s and Rep. Emmeline was really surprised to see the lupus patients she’s been helping to be there to greet her in person. Also present were Mr. Dioceldo Sy and his basketball players for Blackwater team, actress Patricia Javier, selected member of the press led by Manay Lolit Solis. Sec. Mark says he didn’t like to see his wife so sad so he quickly organized the surprise birthday bash for her. “I don’t usually organize surprise parties like this but I did it for my wife who I love so much,” he says.

Some lupus survivors shared their experience and struggle with the disease. Rep. Emmeline herself was diagnosed with lupus when she was 25 years old when she was a new lawyer. “I suddenly had rashes, blisters on my face and body, very painful joint pains. Important na ma-detect agad before it gets worse and destroy other organs. Lupus is a disease where the body’s immune system attacks healthy cells and tissues. Many lupus patients die without proper diagnosis and treatment, so our Help for Lupus Foundation aims to raise awareness about the disease through education, community research programs and funding Lupus research.”

 

Original post: http://www.journal.com.ph/entertainment/showbiz/lovi-s-second-time-with-vhong

Miracle baby nina Sec. Villar at Rep. Em one year old na

Startalk ni Lolit Solis

Carbon copy ni DPWH Secretary Mark Villar

si Emma Therese, ang one and only daughter nila ng kanyang misis na si Diwa Party-List House Representative Emmeline Aglipay-Villar.

First time ko na nakita nang personal ang bagets na nagpapaligaya kina Em at Papa Mark.

Isang miracle baby si Emma Therese dahil may lupus disease ang nanay niya pero nagbuntis pa rin at nagsilang ng isang healthy baby girl.

Nagkita kami kahapon nina Papa Mark at Em sa World Lupus Day celebration na sinabayan ng surprise lunch para sa 35th birthday ni Em, ang founder ng Hope for Lupus Foundation.

Misis ni Sec. Villar, tuloy ang laban sa Lupus

By Lolit Solis

Bawal na bawal pala sa mga may sakit na Lupus ang sobrang tindi na sikat ng araw dahil makaaapekto ito sa karamdaman nila.

Nalaman ko ang impormasyon mula kay Diwa Party-List House Representative Emmeline Aglipay-Villar na isinusulong ang paggamit ng payong ng mga lupus patient.
Malawak ang kaalaman ng loving wife ni DPWH Secretary Mark Villar tungkol sa lupus dahil ganito rin ang sakit niya na natuklasan noong 2007.

Rep. Em naiyaksa sorpresa ni Sec. Mark

Kahapon ang 35th birthday ni Em at nag-celebrate siya sa piling ng Lupus Warriors na tinutulungan ng foundation na itinatag niya, ang Hope for Lupus.

Eksakto sa kaarawan ni Em ang World Lupus Day kaya mala­king sorpresa sa kanya ang party na regalo ni Secretary Villar sa isang restaurant sa Quezon City.

Clueless na clueless si Em sa surprise birthday celebration dahil meeting ang pupuntahan nila ang sinabi sa kanya ni Papa Mark.

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Walang-wala sa isip ni Em na nagtipun-tipon sa restaurant ang kanyang mga kaibigan, ang Lupus Warriors at si Emma Therese, ang one and only daughter nila ni Papa Mark.

Tiniyak ni Papa Mark na magiging unforgettable para sa misis niya ang surprise birthday party na maaga na nagsimula dahil bibiyahe pa sa ibang bansa ang DPWH Sec., kasama si President Rodrigo Duterte.

Anim na araw na mawawala sa Pilipinas si Papa Mark dahil isinama siya ni Papa Rody sa pagbisita nito sa Cambodia, Hong Kong, at China.

Invited guests sa paggunita ng World Lupus Day ang former sexy stars na sina Patricia Javier at Ynez Veneracion.

Si Papa Dioceldo Sy, ang businessman na may-ari ng Everbilena at Blackwater Elite basketball team ang nag-imbita kina Patricia at Ynez na parehong may sapat na knowledge tungkol sa Lupus. Nakita ko rin sa event ang nagtatangkaran na basketball players ng Blackwater Elite.

Si Em ang founder ng Hope for Lupus Foundation na pangunahing layunin na ma-educate ang mga Pilipino tungkol sa karamdaman na kumikitil ng maraming buhay kapag hindi naagapan.

“Many people with lupus die because they were diagnosed when it was too late to do something about it, and more people die undiagnosed. If they had known the symptoms of lupus and received the proper treatment early on, their lives could have been saved, “ ang sabi ni Em.

Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar Given A Surprise Birthday Party Of Husband DPWH Sec. Mark Villar On World Lupus Day

Rep. Emmeline Aglipay-Villar Given A Surprise Birthday Party Of Husband DPWH Sec. Mark Villar On World Lupus Day

 

REP. EMMELINE AGLIPAY-VILLAR of Diwa Party List is a lupus survivor and she turned 35 on May 10, which is by coincidence also World Lupus Day. “Talagang malaki ang koneksyon sa’kin ng lupus,” she laughs.

She says she planned to launch her book, “Living Better with Lupus”, on May 10 in time for her birthday. “But hindi natuloy kasi nagkaproblema sa distribution, so sa June na lang. I’m also supposed to launch a project providing umbrellas kasi kalaban naming mga may lupus ang sikat ng araw dahil we’re photosensitive, hindi rin natuloy. So nabanggit ko sa husband ko, DPWH Sec. Mark Villar (the son of Sens. Manny and Cynthia Villar), that I’m so sad na walang mangyayaring kaganapan sa birthday ko. I didn’t know, he prepared pala this surprise birthday party for me.”

The secret bash was held at Annabel’s and Rep. Emmeline was really surprised to see the lupus patients she’s been helping to be there to greet her in person. Also present were Mr. Dioceldo Sy and his basketball players for Blackwater team, actress Patricia Javier, selected member of the press led by Manay Lolit Solis. Sec. Mark says he didn’t like to see his wife so sad so he quickly organized the surprise birthday bash for her. “I don’t usually organize surprise parties like this but I did it for my wife who I love so much,” he says.

Some lupus survivors shared their experience and struggle with the disease. Rep. Emmeline herself was diagnosed with lupus when she was 25 years old when she was a new lawyer. “I suddenly had rashes, blisters on my face and body, very painful joint pains. Important na ma-detect agad before it gets worse and destroy other organs. Lupus is a disease where the body’s immune system attacks healthy cells and tissues. Many lupus patients die without proper diagnosis and treatment, so our Help for Lupus Foundation aims to raise awareness about the disease through education, community research programs and funding Lupus research.”